Unfamiliar Territory

The crossroads of life.  I have been in this spot many times.  The difference?  Before I had to chose a direction.  That choice affected not only my life, but the lives of others.  Everything I have ever done in the past 22 years, has had a direct effect on my offspring.  But now, my offspring are off living their own lives and doing their own thing.  Now, here I am yet again.  At the same crossroads.  Only difference is.  NOW my decision is mine.  So what now?

I have been trying to chose a direction, but right now my choice is to stand still and wait.  Wait for what?  A sign?  An arrow?  For that I am unsure.  I don't really know where to go from here.  But I do know that I am in no hurry to venture in any one direction.  For now I am perfectly fine just hanging out in the middle.  Weather whatever storms come through this very spot, after all, I have weathered all the storms in all the other directions.

Right, left or straight ahead.  Any direction but back.  I am not going in reverse from here on out.  Any relationships that I had that ended, stay ended.  No rekindling, no going back to anything past.  It's past, it stays past.  I want new... I want a new journey.  I want to venture into the unknown.  I know what's back there.  I want to know what is up ahead.  And for the first time in my life, I don't even care.

The unknown used to scare me because I didn't know where I was going to land.  But after the journey that has brought me to this point, anything has to be better.  I am now my own person.  I no longer have to worry about others and my choices affecting them.

This, is very... unfamiliar territory.  And I am ready to explore it thoroughly!

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